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Gender-Inclusive Bathrooms at the Funeral

February 3, 2022

Because I have event-organizing experience, I have sometimes been involved in coordinating the funerals of friends who are trans. I want to share some of my thoughts on how to do this well. … More Gender-Inclusive Bathrooms at the Funeral

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Pronouns in a Gardening Group

August 17, 2021

Something that I appreciate about the pandemic taking more meetings online is that I’ve become part of a few local gardening groups. I would not have predicted this in 2019. I was too busy and I was traveling 50% of the time; my garden was my hobby when I was home. Last thing I wanted … More Pronouns in a Gardening Group

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A pronoun chart of options which begin with first person pronouns: (f)ae, e/ey, he, per, she, they, ve, xe, and ze/zie.

A Note About Pronouns, Introductions, and Safety

October 29, 2019

A recent workshop participant of mine said something along the lines of the following: “I’m not comfortable giving the pronouns I really want to use right now if other people might decide to use them outside of the workshop.” … More A Note About Pronouns, Introductions, and Safety

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Trans Lifeline valentine reads "Roses are red, violets are blue. Your gender is valid, and I love you."

International Pronouns Day: A Summation

October 20, 2019

I really enjoyed the work I did on International Pronouns Day this year as a board member… … More International Pronouns Day: A Summation

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Photo taken by Crystal at a Sara Barielles concert in 2019.

Trans & Nonbinary Musicians & Music

October 15, 2019

I’m a folk music fan — have been since high school. So in my looking around for transgender and nonbinary works for International Pronouns Day, I went searching for music in my collection… … More Trans & Nonbinary Musicians & Music

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This is a photo of me sitting in the red sand and reading Narrating Violence, Constructing Collective Identities: 'To Witness These Wrongs Unspeakable' by Giti Chandra.

Trans and Nonbinary Characters, Neopronouns in SFF

October 10, 2019

In preparation for International Pronouns Day on Oct 16th, this post is basically an annotated list of trans and nonbinary science fiction and fantasy that’s been published within the past few years. Have at! 🙂 … More Trans and Nonbinary Characters, Neopronouns in SFF

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International Pronouns Day 2019: Internat’l Resources

October 2, 2019

October 16th, 2019 is International Pronouns Day! I’m on the board of the IPD endeavor, this year, and want to share a few resources and links I am particularly excited about … … More International Pronouns Day 2019: Internat’l Resources

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My Pronouns and International Pronoun Day

October 22, 2018

October 17th was International Pronouns Day! I tweeted a thread about my pronouns and gender presentation here. I’ve been thinking a lot about the evolution of my understanding of my gender, over the past few years. You can see some of it in the photos in my Twitter thread. You can also see a bit … More My Pronouns and International Pronoun Day

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Listen to Black Women.

December 13, 2017

Hello, friends. Are you thinking about the Alabama election and feeling some feelings? Astonished by how close the vote was, despite one candidate literally helping bring down the KKK and the opposite candidate openly wistful for slavery in America?   Have you been realizing how few Black women you listen to, read, or even know? … More Listen to Black Women.

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"Thanks for asking!" Pronoun Etiquette CAN be done well.

More People Terminology

June 15, 2017

If society is unclear on the concept of “girl” not being “adult human” … society realllllly doesn’t know what to say about people who aren’t aligned with the gender binary (people whose gender isn’t male or female). … More More People Terminology

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